Ah, and the love of my mother no comfort will give to my sorrow,
For I feel that by Love each former bond must be loosen'd,
When her own bonds she knits; 'tis not the
maiden alone who
Leaves her father and mother behind, when she follows her husband.
So it is with the youth; no more he knows mother and father.
When he beholds the
maiden, the only
beloved one, approaching.
Therefore let me go hence, to where
desperation may lead me,
For my father already has
spoken in words of decision,
And his house no longer is mine, if he shuts out the
maidenWhom alone I would fain take home as my bride from henceforward."
Then the excellent
sensible mother answer'd with quickness
"Men are
precisely like rocks when they stand opposed to each other!
Proud and unyielding, the one will never draw near to the other.
Neither will suffer his tongue to utter the first friendly accent.
Therefore I tell you, my son, a hope still exists in my bosom,
If she is
worthy and good, he will give his consent to your marriage,
Poor though she be, and although with
disdain he refused you the poor thing.
For in his hot-beaded fashion he utters many expressions
Which he never intends; and so will accept the Refused One.
But he requires kind words, and has a right to require them,
For your father he is; his anger is all after dinner,
When he more
eagerly speaks, and questions the reasons of others,
Meaning but little
thereby; the wine then excites all the vigour
Of his
impetuous will, and prevents him from giving due weight to
Other people's opinions; he hears and he feels his own only.
But when evening arrives, the tone of the many discourses
Which his friends and himself hold together, is very much alter'd.
Milder becomes he, as soon as his liquor's effects have passed over
And he feels the
injustice his
eagerness did unto others.
Come, we will
venture at once! Success the
reward is of boldness,
And we have need of the friends who now have assembled around him.--
Most of all we shall want the help of our excellent
pastor."
Thus she
eagerly spoke, and leaving the stone that she sat on,
Also lifted her son from his seat. He
willingly follow'd,
And they descended in silence, revolving the weighty proposal.
-----
V. POLYHYMNIA.
THE COSMOPOLITE.
BUT the Three, as before, were still sitting and talking together,
With the
landlord, the
worthydivine, and also the druggist,
And the conversation still concern'd the same subject,
Which in every form they had long been discussing together.
Full of noble thoughts, the excellent
pastor continued
"I can't
contradict you. I know 'tis the duty of mortals
Ever to
strive for
improvement; and, as we may see, they
strive also
Ever for that which is higher, at least what is new they seek after,
But don't hurry too fast! For combined with these feelings, kind Nature
Also has given us pleasure in
dwelling on that which is ancient,
And in clinging to that to which we have long been accustom'd.
Each situation is good that's accordant to nature and reason.
Many things man desires, and yet he has need of but little;
For but short are the days, and confined is the lot of a mortal.
I can never blame the man who, active and restless,
Hurries along, and explores each corner of earth and the ocean
Boldly and carefully, while he rejoices at
seeing the profits
Which round him and his family gather themselves in abundance.
But I also duly
esteem the
peaceable burgher,
Who with silent steps his
paternalinheritance paces,
And watches over the earth, the seasons carefully noting.
'Tis not every year that he finds his property alter'd;
Newly-planted trees cannot stretch out their arms tow'rds the heavens
All in a moment, adorn'd with beautiful buds in abundance.
No, a man has need of
patience, he also has need of
Pure unruffled
tranquil thoughts and an
intellect honest;
For to the nourishing earth few seeds at a time he entrusteth,
Few are the creatures he keeps at a time, with a view to their
breeding,